Acceptance to reality- is being positive.

Acceptance to reality- is being positive.

Stay positive and be optimistic and everything will change for better someday!

We all must have received this well-meaning advice more than once in our lives.

But, does this mechanism really work that way, even now? Doesn’t it appears to be wishful thinking directive to unrealistic circumstances capable of wreaking havoc in life.

Negative Experiences- Yes , they are important to have .

Bad experiences in life can also be helpful in one’s life. I have personally helped so many people in my life who were in the same situation in life, through my learnings from the hard times and life altering experiences of my life. They are important because they lead you to self exploration and makes one tough.

If any of the readers, is going through some hardships or unhappy times in their lives, my urge is to please stay kind to yourself, giving all your attention to that problem will only attract misery and take a break .

Telling yourself a different story just as a means of staying positive  without separating the facts from fiction is not going to help. Having  acceptance towards the reality- That is being positive. Just be ready to welcome the sun , once the cloud disappears and the sooner you do so the sooner it appears.

So live in reality.